Victoria · End-of-Life Doula
Where life, death, and meaning meet
I am opening a new doorway in my work, holding space at the threshold where life, death, and meaning meet. Virtual and in-person end-of-life support, offered with compassion, presence, and deep reverence.
Certified End-of-Life Doula · University of Vermont
About This Work
Death is not the opposite of life, it is a part of it. And yet in our culture, it is one of the least supported passages we face. My work as a Death Doula is to change that, to bring the same quality of care, presence, and sacred attention to the end of life that we would offer at any other profound threshold.
Whether you are facing a terminal diagnosis, supporting a loved one through their final chapter, processing grief, or simply wanting to prepare, I am here to walk alongside you. Not to fix, not to direct, but to witness and hold.
As a Holy Fire Reiki Master, I also bring energetic and spiritual care into this work, offering a space where the unseen and the sacred are not just welcomed, but honoured.
The University of Vermont
Professional & Continuing Education
What I Offer
Virtual and in-person support, practical, emotional, energetic, and sacred.
Helping individuals and families create meaningful records of a life, letters, recordings, memory books, ethical wills. Something tangible to leave behind that carries love forward.
Virtual + In-PersonBeing present during the active dying process, holding space, offering comfort, supporting the dying person and those around them through one of life's most sacred passages.
In-PersonAs a Holy Fire III Reiki Master, I offer energetic care and spiritual support at end-of-life, easing fear, bringing peace, and holding the energetic field with love and reverence.
Virtual + In-PersonA space to be witnessed in your grief without agenda or timeline. Whether the loss is recent or long-carried, I offer compassionate, non-judgmental companionship through the waves.
Virtual + In-PersonPractical, compassionate support in documenting your wishes, so that when the time comes, the people who love you know how to honour you. A gift of clarity for everyone.
Virtual + In-PersonMany people near the end of life experience visions, visitations, or communications from the unseen. I hold these experiences with deep respect, normalising and honouring what arises.
Virtual + In-PersonCreating meaningful rituals and sacred containers around death, before, during, and after. Honouring the crossing with intention, beauty, and the kind of care that this passage deserves.
Virtual + In-PersonThe Threshold
"Whether you're seeking practical guidance, emotional and energetic support, or a space where the unseen and the sacred are welcomed, I am here to walk alongside you."
, Victoria
Why This Work
At Earth & Ethers, we hold the full arc of life. Alexandra holds the birth portal, the arrival of new souls into the world. I hold the threshold, the sacred passage of departure.
Together, our work spans the full spectrum of human experience. From the time you arrive to the time you depart, Earth & Ethers is here.
You Are Welcome Here
You deserve support that honours your whole self, body, mind, spirit, and the things that can't be measured. I am here for that.
Supporting someone you love through their dying process is one of the hardest things a person can do. You don't have to do it alone.
Whether the loss is recent or long ago, grief doesn't follow a timeline. A space to be witnessed, without agenda, is always available.
Advance care planning and legacy work are gifts of love, for yourself and for the people who will one day need to honour you.
How We Work Together
Most of my offerings are available virtually, meaning wherever you are in the world, support is accessible. Distance does not diminish presence. Some of the most profound holding happens through a screen.
For 11th hour presence, active dying support, and vigil work, in-person attendance is available. Please reach out to discuss your location and needs and we will find a way to be present for you.
Reach Out
If you feel called, or if someone in your life may benefit from this kind of support, you are welcome to reach out and connect. There is no wrong reason to get in touch.